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Even the most cooperative, cheerful, and outgoing young toddler will whine, cling, and cry sometimes. These behaviors are your child's way of saying "Help! All systems overloaded!"
Your 19-month-old is learning new things and refining skills at a dizzying rate. Frustration is inevitable and manifests itself in different ways, depending on the child. Accept these signals for what they are: a cry for attention and TLC.
If it's feasible, respond and let your child know you can tell she's upset. Acknowledge her feelings but don't make too big a deal out of these short-lived emotional storms. If she's crying and clinging, a few hugs and then simple distraction might work. If she's whining, you might explain, "I can't understand you when you whine. Can you show me what you want?"
A transitional object or "lovey," such as a blanket or teddy bear, can buck up an anxious toddler. Not every child develops an attachment to a lovey, but if yours has one, encourage its use. Build quiet time and one-on-one play with you into your child's day, especially if she has a busy day at childcare.
These behaviors will fade over the next few years as your child gains emotional control and a better sense of her place in this big, bewildering world.
During potty training, I dress my daughter in clothes that are easy to put on and pull off, or I don't worry too much about clothes at all. If she wants to sit for just a millisecond, I keep her on the potty by saying encouraging things like 'Let's make the pee-pee come' and singing silly songs.
When you have to bring a sick toddler to the doctor, feeling lousy adds to any fear your child might have about the experience. Your 19-month-old may associate the doctor with the pain of shots or uncertainty about what will happen next.
Come to the clinic armed with a favorite stuffed animal and some books for distraction while you wait. Ask the doctor if your toddler can sit on your lap during the exam.
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